Learn to love yourself!

 

Hey, Hopefully you know me and in case you don’t I am Prabhkeerat Kaur! 

An Indian girl trying to be the visionary leader for tomorrow… Since you did read this much, why not read the whole thing. It might motivate you to live life a different way 🤩

Well, since the time I was a little girl… I was quite a loveable child who  got around with everyone! So where comes the problem? This little girl who loved everyone didn’t really know that she’s supposed to love herself too! She got happy when people loved her and adored her as the cute little child and when she got a lil less attention she would get sad. 

But then I realised that ofcourse I need all the love by my family and I’m grateful for that but… above all I need my love! Now I had new rules to live by: 

1. I can jam on my favourite songs and dance like a mad girl
2. I can watch my favourite movie and get some popcorn even if I am alone 
3. I can be my own best company!
4. I can write to give myself peace! ( and that’s how you know me as BLOG GIRL)

And guess what, I became my own favourite person! I could survive in a room alone. I could love myself the way no other could… and that’s when I realised your first love should always be YOU!!!! I started enjoying my own company. I jammed on songs that made me feel the best girl alive! At the end you can not always wait for people to come to you because sometimes you need to be alone and rediscover yourself. I loved myself. I sat alone to rediscover PRABHKEERAT KAUR and that’s when I discovered my true love for writing and each blog that you get from me is what I write all alone in a room! 

As a young girl, at school, if my best friend wouldn’t come I would feel all alone and sad since I had to sit alone for lunch 

But now I realise that wasn’t really a big deal! We need friends to survive school and college but just if you enjoy your own self enough, you can be alone sometimes and be just as happy, or maybe a little less but not sad! 

Well, I am not trying to say that you are supposed to live your life alone or you are supposed to hate people! I can not survive without my favourite peeps and I’m sure you can’t too. But what I want you to know is that if you are alone at some point of life.. you’re not supposed to be depressed. Instead, you are supposed to use that time and know the real you! 

Also, there would be times where you dream of something but people would think that you are daydreaming. At that time your love for yourself does come handy! Just because people didn’t trust you, you can’t doubt your own dreams. As I always say that you have to be your own VOICE, so speak up for yourself because if you think somebody is going to ring your doorbell and say “ hey, I am here to speak up for you” then you are completely wrong my friend 

In this life, nobody is coming, so better buckle up your seatbelt’s to survive in the roller coaster of life! 

Kyuki “खुदी से मैंने इश्क किया रे”

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